Relationship MOT

Do you sometimes feel you and your partner are “wired differently”?

It’s highly likely that two people coming from different backgrounds will have different views and different ways of approaching things. Relationships thrive when there is greater understanding of these differences and where they originate from. This is where a Relationship MOT can help.

How can a Relationship MOT Help?

Before we say “I Do” Pre Marital Counselling 

A Relationship MOT will provide the couple with a deeper understanding of the dynamics, the stress, and the strength and growth areas in the relationship. It’s designed to help you understand each other better, and prepare you with the resources you will need to overcome problems and issues, before they arise. It’s a preventative health check to stop problems creeping up on you in later years.

Marriage guidance for an established or stale relationship

All relationships need nourishing to continually grow. A Relationship MOT can be beneficial for couples who have been married for many years to inject some new energy and life into the relationship. It will provide the opportunity to reflect and enrich your relationship. Many couples agree on a new direction after the support of a Relationship MOT.

What is a Relationship MOT?

A Relationship MOT is a couple’s health check. It provides couples with the space to reflect and discuss areas of their relationship.

How does it work?

It starts out with a questionnaire which is customised to the couple’s circumstances and asks a range of questions covering up-bringing to views on finances and parenting (if applicable). The questionnaire is completed online and independently of each other.

Lynn, who is a qualified counsellor will use the results, during follow-up sessions, to provide feedback and teach the couple new relationship skills. The journey of a Relationship MOT takes an average of 6 weeks to complete. Here’s an overview of the process:

We felt very safe talking to you and you allowed us to talk without interrupting. You came in at the right time with great insights from what we had said. We would definitely recommend this to other couples about to get married.

Ross and Tony